Being a good listener helps to boost productivity, build up your confidence and minimizes stress? Like many people, do you also have the habit to respond to what the other person is saying, while listening?
Perhaps, you are not aware that this approach to listening ruins the outcome. The other person is practically confused regarding what you are saying because your message is not synchronizing with what he has said. Does it make sense to you?
There is a powerful hidden message in the word listen only. When you rearrange the letters of the word listen you find the most important quality one must have to listen and that is silent, I repeat SILENT. Silently listen to the whole message first and then only plan your response and feel the miraculous outcome in your renewed relationship.